So, I have been in a poly relationship for about 4 months now, and I need some advice. I am also in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. My owner is married, and we live with his wife, although I am his primary partner. We spend most of our time together, and recently, he has started dating a few other women. I have been ok with most things, I got past a lot of the jealously early on as I knew what I was coming into. More recently though, I have found myself wondering a lot of the time..."Why does he do this for/with her, but not for/with me?" I know this isn't healthy, and I try really hard to keep these feelings to myself and not trouble him with it. I don't want to cause drama in our already crazy lives. So, I am asking, how do you deal with that? How do you get past the jealousy of what a partner does for others, and not for you? How do you communicate that you are feeling left out, with out causing drama?
Thank you for your advice!
Cailin